What are the Signs of Anger
What are the signs of anger? We look at the various signs of anger problems in this issue.
The symptoms of anger or signs of anger includes explosive mind with destructive or
attacking tendencies, fast and wrong decision making bring harm to oneself and others, negative expression like
tense muscles, clenched fist of jaw, red face, and glaring look, refusing to work, verbally use of abuse words.
But what are the causes behind the signs of anger? These may come forth from frustration, hurt,
annoyance, disappointment, harassment and threats.
Since everyone is different it can be impossible to define exactly the signs of anger
problems in each individual.
Signs of anger may be verbal or physical. The angry minds are often aggressive, sarcastic,
nagging, and will often complain about everything. An anger person will slap, hit, punch, threaten, shove, or kick
others when their anger arises. Then again they may go further. Becoming malicious toward others, which includes
spreading rumors, retaliating, or defiantly striking out against another.
The signs of anger includes anti-social behaviors, including denial and inability to relate
to others. Angry persons often act out in hate and will go out of their way to hurt others in the process.
Signs of anger problems incudes negative thinking patterns and these patterns are displayed
to others. When a person is angry, they often tell others that you are stupid. Alternatively, you are ugly and no
one wants you. This is belittling the other person and the angry person often finds relief. When a person has
difficulty dealing with his or her anger they will often vent their lack on their ability to trust others.
Persons with signs of anger are often suspicious, whining, judgmental, and often jealous of
others. They will act out disruptively, and retort to disobliging reactions. A person with anger issues will often
try to under mind anyone around them. These types of people are no fun to be around and they do need help.
Sometimes the signs of anger have deep-rooted psychological causes.
Recently I dealt with a woman that had uncontrollable anger issues. For no apparent reason she
would react to minor issues. Issues such as a child eating too much or eating something that she envied was enough
to instigate a reaction. Sometimes she was mild in her acts, and other times she was outrageous. For example,
she would say that all men are pigs. She also talked about leading men on; leading them to her basement and having
alligators eat them alive.
The woman was deranged and very sick minded. Now she was diagnosed with Bipolar Manic
Depression, and Posttraumatic Stress Disorder. Now the root of her anger according to her was that the many
men she endured relationships with mistreated her. This may have been partial reason, but the truth showed when she
talked about her life. She was adopted; therefore, she had a sense of abandonment. The root her is obvious, since
she most likely hated her parents for tossing her away like garbage.
An angry person will also seek attention and often use negative words. For example, I am fat.
Now the person is waiting for you to tell her that she is exaggerating. The best thing to do in this instances is
do not sit yourself up for a fall. No matter how many times you tell the person that she is not fat, or she just
needs to drop a few pounds you are never going to satisfy her mind, since denial is the root.
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